• fossphi@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    Constantly. And then when I’m not good at something (even if I might enjoy it), I dread doing it again

    • srestegosaurio@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      3 months ago

      I don’t know if it might be due to ADHD (or something related) since I’m still waiting to get tested but I feel the same.

      The moment I notice I’m not good/best among my peers at something I don’t want to touch it even again.

      On the other hand this might be just me acting like a five year old I don’t known. I just related hard.

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      3 months ago

      It’s the lack of flow.

      When I’m good at something, I can switch my brain off (even for mental tasks like programming; it’s weird how ADHD works) and happily do it for hours.

      When I’m working on something I’m not good at or am new to, I need to stop every few minutes to think or research and that gives my ADHD brain an opportunity to attack.

      When I’m medicated, I can maintain that flow state with nearly any task - just with zero control over which task gets priority.