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  • wisely@feddit.orgtoMemes@sopuli.xyzWHY
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    6 days ago

    Yes they do match up where if you are talking about a female animal or person it’s a feminine word etc. For inanimate objects I’ve been told they aren’t necessarily giving or thinking of them as having a gender though, not like it would be in English.

    There seems to be no standard way to address someone nonbinary, it’s even worse than in English. Best I know is to ask. Until then most simply skip the pronoun and use their name instead, or Sie. Since Sie is respectful and is already used for people of any gender when used formally.

    The nonbinary category itself is often called “divers”. Nouns that reference gender can be combined by adding an asterisk in the middle. “Lehrer*in”. As a warning though some conservative and older people can get upset about the asterisk.

    Do you know what level German you are at? My older relatives spoke German but passed away when I was young. I always regretted not learning it and being monolingual. So in my 30’s I decided I was just going to learn it even if it took years or I never fully got genders right. Now it’s been 15 months learning daily and am at the B1 level. So not an expert just intermediate with more to learn.


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    My understanding was that it’s not seen as a male or female like it would be in English. Like der Tisch, they aren’t thinking of the table being manly, it’s just the way it’s said. Also neuter is seen more like a child gender than nonbinary. I have heard nonbinary people find neuter as being offensive because it’s infantilizing them. At least that’s how it was explained to me.

    Would love to know more if anyone has any experience with that. I could be wrong as I am still learning and don’t know about gender theory in German. Are there gender politics for objects in German?


  • wisely@feddit.orgtoMemes@sopuli.xyzWHY
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    7 days ago

    Yeah as an English speaker using neuter seems very natural. Modern English loan words such as from IT are often neuter for that reason.

    However in general, words are statistically most likely to be masculine and least likely to be neuter. So if the word ending isn’t obviously feminine and it’s not a category such as IT that has a common gender you may be better off guessing masculine.







  • wisely@feddit.orgtoFunny@sh.itjust.worksMeanwhile in Sweden
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    15 days ago

    This is interesting to see as someone who hasn’t been able to afford to travel. One of the cool things since learning German that I have noticed is that I can read a lot of Swedish and Dutch. Those languages kind of look like a combination of English and German with alternative spelling to me now.










  • wisely@feddit.orgtomemes@lemmy.worldJust asking
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    19 days ago

    There is a constant gender war going on for everyone. Even the manliest man. A man has sex with a woman, becomes a father and steps up, gay. Always washes his hands and doesn’t have affairs gay. Drives a Prius, he is some kind of sissy. Eats one vegetable or God have mercy on them if they suck on a popsicle…

    Women, no makeup? Butch. Too fat. Can’t excel in your career. Or be too tall. Definitely don’t lift too many weights. Why aren’t you pregnant and at home. Girls shouldn’t be in STEM. Didn’t nurse your own child and used formula? Terrible mother

    Gay people? You can’t have sex like that or marry that person. Trans? Wow you can’t live your life like that. Let’s force what name, gender, pronouns, bathrooms, healthcare etc that you can have. Imagine what it’s like to have the control over you to be taken to that extreme by the actual government.

    It’s all a spectrum that everyone is on with trans getting the worst of it because they are on the far end.