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  • She asked me twice whether I thought her stories sounded crazy, so she was clearly somewhat aware of her condition.

    Not necessarily.

    It’s very likely everyone in her life were telling her it’s all in her head, she gets mad and says she’s not crazy…

    Then calls random repair people, tells them the story. And asks “am I crazy” because most businesses would never say that to a client. She was looking for validation, the same way people go fishing for compliments saying stuff like “I’m so bad at my job, I don’t know how you all put up with me”. Even if it’s true and they’re dead weight, most people will be polite and reassure them.

    I just didn’t know how to deal with someone like that

    Tell them that they should relay their concerns to a medical professional if they’re concerned.

    If they’re seriously doubting their delusions, they’ll go get help and thank you for the advice.

    More likely they’ll realize you’re not giving them what they want, get mad, and often blame you for being involved in the conspiracy.

    But there’s a chance they actually get help.

    Any kind of acceptance of their beliefs, no matter how tentative, reinforces it and drives them further into the delusion. Depending on how involved her family is, she might have called them immediately, and after cussing them out said even the plumber agrees she’s not crazy.


  • They probably thought you meant something different than what you actually meant.

    You think they do an annual review of threads?

    It was over a year ago I made the comment, they banned me for it five days ago.

    I don’t know man, it’s weird you’re not getting that, but it doesn’t really matter.

    I’m sorry if I’m explaining it poorly.

    I did remember it wasn’t I blocked a mod, I explained why I might not respond. And apparently they didn’t like that I had blocked their instance


  • Weird, maybe because I looked at world’s modlog and not theirs like you seem to have done.

    I clicked on the link, it was a comment from literally a year ago lol.

    https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/3159844

    I blocked the mod of that sub about a week ago, so they likely went and saw my last comment there and banned me for it.

    Like I said tho, I’m perfectly fine with it. I blocked their whole instance a long time ago, I think it might have actually been that thread that clued me in it wasn’t worth ever going there again.

    Thanks for finding that tho! I’ll remember to check an instance’s own modlog in the future for more details.

    Quick edit:

    (which your agreement to could be seen as agreement with trans-segrigation in sports).

    Nah, I was explaining how the only way to get better at chess is to play better people, and there’s no reason for any classes based around gender. And the explanation for difference in skill, is simply that the best men refused to play women, so they never improved. The first female grand master was only that good because her dad was crazy good and made her and her sister play him constantly.

    You need the experience of high level play to be able to play at a high level, and any gender divide in division just prolongs that. So I was arguing against any segregation at all.

    That’s why they let it stay up a year until I blocked the mod of that community.

    And suddenly it was transphobic.




  • On the other hand, I’ve blocked both those instances months ago and it’s been great.

    Strangely I did notice I got banned from a blahaj community like a week ago despite not commenting there for at least 6 months, maybe ever?

    Which is kind of the whole point of me blocking them

    Both have mods/admins that are very very opinionated about things. And they tend to refuse to let things go (much like OP or you making that sub)

    So if they see something they dont agree with, they’ll pre-emptively ban an account, because, and this is doubly important right here:

    It’s trolls feeding trolls drama in a big loop

    You making that sub, OP making this post…

    All you’re doing is encouraging them

    Can you really not understand?

    I’ll try and remember to come back and check if you respond, but I don’t get notifications from instances I’ve blocked.

    Edit:

    I was banned five days ago apparently for this comment from a year ago:

    https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/3159844

    Definitely not because I blocked that mod five days ago and they desperately found a way to “get back”.

    Great example of my point tho, silly instances like that there’s no point in fighting them, just block their instance and go about your life.



  • Yeah, a little suspect OP’s account is a week old with barely double digit posts/comments if you combine them and most are from this post…

    I’m guessing their favorite (of many) accounts got blocked by .ml, so now they don’t want anyone going there.

    I don’t get the .ml drama tho, never have. I realized it was a silly place long ago, so I blocked the whole instance.

    I did the same for a couple others. It takes like two seconds.

    Who cares if it has bigger communities than others? If that’s all I cared about I’d still be on Reddit

    I think a lot or people (like OP) can’t drop this mindset because they’re not on the fediverse willinging. It’s probably the only social media site where IP bans aren’t a thing. So people IP banned from the big ones, are gonna trickle down here and do dumb drama hunting shit like OP.