More dataisdepressing than dataisbeautiful

  • Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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    1 month ago

    Yeah I agree. Wanting to Go back the good old days is what is causing this trend. Though Realistically all the social skills in the world won’t bag you the girl if you are average right now. I knew a few coworkers that wouldn’t even talk to a guy unless he was a 666 man. 6 figures, 6 feet, 6 pack. No surprise they are single. I wonder if their POV changed overtime, they were in early 20s at the time. I know my old roommate lowered her standards super hard over 30 to bag a husband.

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        1 month ago

        The Sample size is rather small from personal experience. I am curious if such data exists.

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          1 month ago

          I don’t think I understand what you are saying. Data does exist.

          Taller men are generally seen as more attractive.

          Wealthier people, or people who pay attention to the latest trends in general are seen as more attractive.

          Healthy and fit people are generally seen as more attractive.

          All of this is true, but so what. If someone is hyper focused on getting a man or woman to be with them who has these or other specific physical and / or socioeconomic traits, isn’t that for them to decide?

          If you only want to date women who have been on the covered of the sports illustrated swimsuit edition, isn’t that your choice also?

          What’s your point?