• miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    „Here’s the ten bucks you let me borrow, sorry it took so long, I hope you aren’t angry at me“

    I gave this person money?

  • TheDoozer@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    Seriously. I don’t have the energy to keep track of that shit. If somebody was shitty to me they just get labeled as “not friend” and get treated like an acquaintance. Anything more requires me to care about them in some way, and I have shit to do.

  • db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comM
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    I only hold one single grudge in my life. The one fucker in high-school who took the accountant role when my mother died of cancer, took the money my class raised for my family, and spent them on luxury stuff for himself.

  • CarlsIII@kbin.social
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    You mean you don’t hyper fixate on a few uncomfortable moments from your past and hold grudges based on those?

    • Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      I barely remember my own life so I indeed don’t hold grudges because I have no idea why I held them or if it was actually my fault that something happened.