Wikepedia states

“Much like today’s socially acceptable terms idiot and moron, which are also defined as some sort of mental disability, when the term retard is being used in its pejorative form, it is usually not being directed at people with mental disabilities. Instead, people use the term when teasing their friends or as a general insult.”

Is it only a slur if directed at soneone with mental disabilities? Is it a slur if durected at onself?

Whats lemmies take on this?

    • But ull still give me a downvote for copy pasting the actuall definition cos u where incapable of fact checking urself.

      Welp seems we can also use ur argument for retard as well, so not only are you half wrong you argument proves me full right.

      retard

      noun

      Retardation; delay. Similar: retardation delay

      A mentally retarded person.

      A person who is stupid or inept, especially in social situations.

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        2 months ago

        Whoa whoa whoa. Slowdown. I didn’t downvote you. I actually forgot to vote at all

        And you’re insinuating that I’m a retard because I downvoted you? Take a day from lemmy friend. We all get worked up and I believe you’re worked up

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            2 months ago

            Don’t call yourself that. And that I disagree because those other words can be used to justify a generalization while “retard” is not a generalized word.

            And I’m just going to assume what you said is an apology, but you haven’t been able to figure how to comfortably apologize to people online. Apology accepted

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        I think you may be misunderstanding your “victory” here. I suppose that’s pretty contextual, when it comes down to it.