• Smoogs@lemmy.world
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      20 days ago

      Depends on the situation, like

      If it’s drunk parents who beat their kids and one of those kids is your friend. Npd is pretty common as well as generational trauma. And some eras where sexual abuse on young kids was considered ‘hazing’.

      That’s not to say some kids can be little shits that make that stuff up in order to watch someone suffer.

      But either way these are all presumptions before hearing the story and it would be unfair to pick a side or assassinate character before knowing.

    • FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works
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      16 days ago

      Yeah true, and some friends if you know them well you know that they can be a lil naughty as well which they might not frame it that way

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    20 days ago

    When I woke up they dropped in the group chat, they where finally getting to sleep (Same time zone), bcs there family was keeping them awake, never met them but I already have beef with them.

  • Miles O'Brien@startrek.website
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    20 days ago

    Me, every time my wife tells me a story of her childhood dealing with her narcissist mother, enabling father, both of whom were neglectful and emotionally abusive to all their children, and her insane sister who for reasons too numerous to count, deserves a spot in whatever hell is the worst one.

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      19 days ago

      Yep, I fantasize about baiting a physical fight with my husband’s abusive piece of shit father if I ever meet him. I’d lose, but hopefully get the fucker thrown in jail in the process.